There are so many things in life that cannot be undone once they are done.  Just as there are so many things that cannot be done once the choice is made not to do them.  We make choices every day and we don’t know what the consequences will be, for better or for worse, we can only guess at how things will turn out…many people do not consider the consequences of their actions at all.

The words that we speak can never be brought back to stay only in our mind.  Once you say it, it is out in the world, which prevents a lot of people from ever confronting issues, but those who do chance it sometimes pay the price by ruining priceless relationships.  But if you don’t risk it you’re stuck with the stress and pain of wondering what would have happened.  It’s hard to make some choices in life:  what to say, how to say it, when to say it, if you should say it……What to do, who to do it with…..where to live, who to live with……

There are so many decisions we are expected to make and they are hard because there is absolutely no way to know the outcome of the decisions.  Some choices make us cry, even when we know we are doing the right thing, other choices we may regret for the rest of our lives….it’s hard to say if anyone’s life ever turns out right.  There are so many choices that affect everyone around you, not just you, but every person you come in contact with, are related to, even the people you choose to ignore affects that person, you, anyone you are connected to, and anyone they are connected to.  It’s a never ending chain of events that goes from one person to the next and we never know if it will come back around to us, or keep circling us. 

Choices….