Dealing with people
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It’s said that it takes all kinds of people to make a world….I think that’s true, whether we are looking at the whole world or just the world that you live in as a person, there are going to be different dynamics of people any time two people are put together in a small space, or have to interact in any way. Dealing with people can get frustrating, but I don’t think it will ever change. There will always be people around, and we will always have to deal with somebody that we don’t get along with, or at least don’t quite see eye to eye with. Now, I try not to judge people, and just accept them for who they are….but accepting and liking are two different things. Sometimes we have to just accept that a person is a real jerk, and leave it there…there is no use in hoping that a person will magically change, those great epiphanies seem to only happen in movies, at least in my experience. Now, it’s great if you can make a person realize something and really open up their eyes to new experiences…but how often can that really happen…some people will argue that just change or touching one person is enough…and maybe that’s true for them…or there is the other extreme who want to change everybody and wont accept anyone who isn’t like them. Of course there are the people who say that they don’t want to change anybody and just want to leave everyone else alone, and I wonder what causes that attitude… I wonder if it’s because they have tried and feel like they have failed or if they really just want to be left alone, or maybe they just feel like the world is beyond help. Why is it so hard for us, as a society, to accept people for who they are and not try to change them?