Shining Thru

Wobbly legs that crisscross across the water

Slippery water turned to sleek and slick ice.

Shaking arms out for supported footing

Placing one foot in front of the other

Feeling as if you’re on a tightrope

You walk through life

Tip Toeing around

Scissoring legs try to straighten themselves

Resisting the urge to give up and crawl

Continuing to hold your head up

Confidence does a lot for balance

Balanced for a moment

Looking on watching to see if they will make it

Wanting to come to their side

and hold their hand

Unwilling

Unable

Looking on, knowing that it’s your turn to stumble next

You hope for balance in your life

An unwavering hand to guide you

Give you what you lack

Give you want you want

Not just looking

Walking

Playing it safe with people gets you nowhere except hurt feelings and loneliness.  If you never get attached to people or let them all the way in, they will eventually drift away, or leave you feeling like it doesn’t matter if they are around or not, because they don’t really know you. 

When you try to please everyone in your life, nobody ends up satisfied, including yourself…that isn’t good for anyone.  But then, who do you leave out???  I know many people pleasers and they are all  unhappy most of the time, because they spend their days trying to make everyone happy.  They do things to make the most people happy, rarely do they do anything to make themselves happy.

Now, there is obviously a thin line here, because we have too many completely selfish people in our society as well…I realize that you can’t go through life acting like an arogent jerk..well you can, but that’s not how I want to live my life…but you can’t go through life trying to please everybody in your life all the time either…Everyone loses when a person tries to stretch themselves too far.  Everyone will eventually feel neglected and detached from you. 

It’s so hard to find the balance and order the priorities in life, but it needs to be done, or you will find yourself unhappy and all of those you are trying to stretch yourself between will be unhappy or feel like something is missing as well.

Confident, Beautiful, Joyful, Attractive, Intelligent….

Things to strive for in our personal life…

How can we always know what is important?

We have goals, aspirations…

But what holds importance when building our character, our outward image, and our lives….

What should a person focus on…if you don’t care about society at all,  you will be swimming against it all your life…you’ll be struggling, gasping for breath as the waves of people, commercialism, and accepted behavior wash over you each day.

If you care too much about society you’ll end up in your middle age, not really sure how you got to where you are, if you’re happy, or really anything about yourself…

Life is a balancing act…we all wobble a little up on the beam, but as long as you keep your arms out you can stay up.

Albert Einstein said…

“Life is like riding a bicycle.
To keep your balance you must keep moving.”

I think Einstein had a good point…we can’t give up on life, we have to keep moving through it, if we never take off the training wheels and fall a time or two we will never find the balance that we are looking for.  If we simply stop we will never see what is down the road, we will never discover what is in the world or in ourselves.