Entries tagged with “complications”.


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I don’t understand people that think other people only exist to serve them….they only prove their point by ignoring people until they need something from them, and then all of the sudden they want to be your best friend…or at least until they get what they want from you.  I wish I could understand the mentality that would actually lead a person to think that it is ok to treat people that way, as if they are the Ruler of the land and everyone is just another humble servant who can’t wait to grant their every wish and desire. 

It’s amazing how people choose to interact with each other, or at least with certain people.  As if the people they encounter don’t feel put off at all by the treatment.  Have they never felt hurt or anger or frustration with someone for similar treatment?  Are they not able to feel these things because they are so centered around themselves that it doesn’t even occur to them to feel anything because they don’t notice how others treat them? 

I have to wonder if people realize how they appear when other people witness their treatment of the people around them.  Personally when I see someone who just uses another person, it makes me not want to trust them, or even help them out in any way.  It kind of makes me just want to let them flounder because they are obviously use to people giving them exactly what they want, when they want it; as if they are entitled to something that the rest of us can only dream of.

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Have you ever ran smack into a hard decision that leaves you feeling like you hit a brick wall…all disoriented and out of sorts, not really sure of what happened or where it came from?  Completely unexpected, not quite knowing what do to do, or the next step to take….You don’t want to disappoint anyone but you know you need to watch out for what’s best for you…what is the definition of the “right” thing to do…How do you know when you reach your final decision?  How do you know that you wont regret it…

I guess you really don’t know.  Sometimes you might just have to take a chance and trust your instincts, and if it turns out not to be right for you, you move on and make another decision to move on to something else….What else can you do?  Weigh the options, pick one, and hope things work out for the best….