I think it’s crazy how some things that happens to other people, have nothing to do with you, but can still really offend you. You have to wonder if you’re making yourself to be more important than you are or if you just really care about the other person….you have to wonder if you have a caring heart or an over involved heart…. I think that both are possibilities, I also think that there is a fine line there.
I hate seeing certain things and I know other people that get really upset when they see completely different things. So what happens when you’re upset about something that happened to someone close to you, but they are not upset. Do you let it go? Try to hype them up? It isn’t right to disregard your feelings, but it certainly isn’t right to press those feelings on the other person either. Which leaves you in an odd position, of just deal with it and get over it your own way and then let it go.
Sometimes you try to put yourself in their situation or the situation of the person who did the offending, but the truth is, without actually being in that situation, we have no idea what we would actually do in the reality of the situation. I find that people are quick to say..”well if that was me….” but in all actuality, there is no way for them to know what they would do.
